Which signature techniques does Paul Rogers recommend for achieving a cinematic glow in videos?

Here are a few “cinematic glow” moves uses over and over:

• Double diffusion on your key light – One diffusion = soft, double diffusion = that creamy cinematic glow with smoother shadows and more flattering skin.
• Soft key on your face + a subtle background glow (like a flashlight on the wall) to add depth and separation.
• Cross edge lighting on both sides of the subject so the shoulders and face edges “kiss” with light instead of looking flat.

Want help figuring out how to pull this off with the specific lights you own?