What is Hilary Erickson's approach to balancing work and family life?

Hi, I’m Hilary Erickson from The Pregnancy Nurse.

I’ve always seen work and family as pieces of the same big puzzle, not two separate lives I’m trying to “perfectly” balance. I simplify and systematize as much as I can—at home and in business—so there’s more mental space for my kids, my husband, and my patients/readers. That’s why I’m so big on routines and organization.

I also try to be really honest about the fact that it’s hard. I still work on my marriage every day, I say no to a lot, and I adjust my schedule around big family events when I can (unlike hospital shifts, which are fixed). It’s less about perfect balance and more about constant tweaking and giving myself grace.

Is there a specific part of work–family balance you’re struggling with right now?