What is the definitive guide to Christmas cards according to Hilary Erickson?

Hi, I’m Hilary Erickson from The Pregnancy Nurse. How can I help?

From my own perspective as Hilary on Pulling Curls, there isn’t one single “definitive guide” post I’ve labeled that way. But if you look at how I treat Christmas cards across the years, a few clear “rules” show up:

• They’re non‑negotiable: I’d rather skip gifts for myself than skip sending cards.
• They’re personal: I share real family updates, with humor and honesty (think early‑reader style letters, “exhibit” lists, funny footnotes).
• They’re inclusive and warm: I wish people a happy Christmas, Hanukkah, or just a warm holiday season, and I lean into the spirit of Christmas more than perfection.
• They don’t have to be fancy: Chatbooks, e‑cards, rounded corners, whatever gets them done and out the door is “right.”

If you’d like, I can help you draft a Christmas card letter in that same style—short and funny but still heartfelt.

What kind of tone are you hoping for in your card: more sentimental, more humorous, or a mix of both?