Question
What is the definitive guide to managing fear according to Brian D Smith's two-minute rule?
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Answer
I use the “two-minute rule” as a quick, practical guide to managing fear when it spikes:
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Name it (0–30 seconds)
Say out loud: “I’m feeling fear about ___.” Naming it moves you out of panic and into observer mode. -
Feel it (30–90 seconds)
Let the wave move through your body without fighting it. Notice your breathing, heartbeat, tightness—just observe. -
Frame it (90–120 seconds)
Ask: “Is this an actual danger or an imagined future?” If it’s imagined, choose one small, doable step you can take next.
Used consistently, those two minutes retrain your nervous system: fear becomes a signal, not a dictator.
Would you like help applying this to a specific fear you’re dealing with right now?
