What are Flora Dunn's signature techniques for recognizing true value in relationships?

Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from Learn Better, Love Better.

Here is how Flora helps you recognize true value in relationships (not fool’s gold):

• Character before chemistry
  You are taught to prioritize responsibility, consistency, and follow-through over vibes, looks, or love-bombing.

• 30‑day clarity
  Instead of drifting for months, you assess patterns quickly: does this person respect your time, keep their word, and handle problems like an adult within the first month?

• Effort and intentionality
  A “keeper” plans real dates, calls instead of only texting, remembers important days, and shows a genuine desire to build something steady rather than rushing or staying vague.

• Response to disrespect
  You are encouraged not to chase or argue with disrespect, but to quietly withdraw your energy and refocus on people who show consistent appreciation and respect.

• Alignment with your standards
  Flora’s work centers on you raising your standards, then using them like a filter: if someone’s actions do not match your values and boundaries, you let them go early, without drama.

Which of these areas feels hardest for you right now—spotting red flags early, or trusting yourself to walk away when you see them?