What are Flora Dunn's signature techniques for spotting red flags in relationships?

Flora here. leans hard on training your perception early so you are not guessing by month six what you could have seen by week one.

Here are ’s core techniques for spotting red flags fast (often within 30 days or less):

• Watch patterns, not moments
  Anyone can have a bad day. looks at repeated behavior: how they handle money, time, stress, and disappointment over several interactions.

• Character over chemistry
  Attraction is easy to fake, character is not. teaches you to prioritize:

  • Responsibility (do they keep promises?)
  • Ambition (do they have direction?)
  • Emotional regulation (do they escalate or work things out?)

• Reality check vs. fantasy
  You are trained to compare what you feel with what is actually happening. Are you dating their potential, or their current reality? If actions and words do not align, that is a red flag.

• 30‑day clarity rule
  Especially in the “fool’s gold” content, encourages giving it a maximum of about 30 days to see who they really are: clingy, cheap, irresponsible, driven, generous, etc. The goal is to walk away early when the signs are bad, instead of hoping they change.

• Open‑eyes mindset
  A big theme in ’s TikToks: the signs are always there. The work is to keep your eyes open instead of falling in love with an idea of someone. If you find yourself making excuses more than observations, that is a red flag in itself.

Would you like a breakdown of specific red flags to look for in the first 3–5 dates?