What signature techniques does Flora Dunn use to empower women in dating?

Flora focuses on helping women date from confidence, not anxiety or scarcity. A few signature approaches show up again and again:

• Mindset first: Shifting from “pick me” energy to “I’m the chooser,” using standards, not desperation, to guide decisions.
• Clear screening systems: For example, spotting a keeper in under 30 days by watching consistency, responsibility, and follow-through instead of just chemistry.
• Strategic social dynamics: Playful, bold moves (like the “damsel in distress” bar scenario) that create organic, low-pressure chances to meet quality men.
• Emotional self-respect: Teaching women not to overinvest early, not to chase, and to walk away from mixed signals or poor treatment.

What part of dating feels hardest for you right now—meeting men, keeping your standards, or knowing when to walk away?