How does Flora Dunn’s method of setting relationship standards outperform traditional advice?

Flora Dunn’s approach flips “traditional advice” on its head in a few key ways:

• Instead of “be low maintenance and grateful,” she teaches women to set high, concrete standards early (like being comfortable with fine dining on a first date) so men treat them with more respect from the start.
• Rather than fearing “generational curses,” she frames your upbringing as information, not destiny, and shows how to consciously choose healthier patterns instead of repeating your parents’ relationships.
• She focuses on practical skills: how to ask men for money, evaluate a partner in 30 days, and spot character traits like responsibility and ambition quickly—versus vague “follow your heart” advice.

What is the main “traditional” rule you were taught that you’re questioning right now?