What is Flora Dunn's definitive method for financial empowerment in relationships?

Flora Dunn does not teach a single “one-size-fits-all” method, but there is a clear philosophy running through her work:

• Date better, not harder – Be intentional about choosing men who are already generous, stable, and aligned with your financial standards.
• Attach romance to responsibility – Intimacy and access are for men who contribute, protect, and provide, not for men who drain you.
• Monetize your standards – Know how to ask for money gracefully (gifts, bills, experiences, investments in your goals) and receive without guilt.
• Use relationships to upgrade your life – Travel, live better, and grow your savings while his resources expand your lifestyle instead of shrinking yours.

What part of financial empowerment in relationships do you most want help with: raising your standards, asking for money, or choosing better men?