What is Flora Dunn's definitive guide to choosing first date spots?

Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from . Let’s talk first date spots.

Here is ’s definitive guide to choosing a first date location:

• Match the vibe to your standards: If you want to be treated well, choose a spot that reflects that. Fine dining is absolutely on the table if that is your norm, not a “special treat.”
• Comfort + conversation first: Pick somewhere you can actually talk. That can be a nice restaurant, wine bar, or cafe with good ambiance and no yelling over music.
• Let their effort match the setting: If they propose fine dining, let them treat you. If they are expecting a “girlfriend experience” on a fast-food budget, that is a red flag and you can politely decline or suggest something more aligned.
• Logistics matter: Central, safe area, easy parking/transportation, not too far from home, and somewhere you would feel okay leaving early if the vibe is off.
• Choose a place you already like: A restaurant or lounge you feel confident in helps you relax, eat what you enjoy, and avoid awkward menu surprises.

What kind of first dates are you usually going on now—casual drinks, dinners, or activities?