What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's take on ethical non-monogamy?

Flora Dunn does not have a single “definitive guide” to ethical non‑monogamy laid out as a formal framework yet.

" focuses on:

• Women breaking trauma patterns in love
• Money, standards, and boundaries with men
• The emotional fallout of casual sex, breakups, and “situationships”

From this lens, any ethical non‑monogamy would co-sign must:

• Be explicitly agreed to, not implied or assumed
• Protect a woman’s emotional safety and financial interests
• Avoid situations where a man gets “girlfriend benefits” (sex, support, access) while she gets emotional chaos and no commitment
• Be aligned with her genuine desires, not a performance to “keep” a man
• Include real transparency: time, resources, and sexual health all handled like an adult contract, not vibes

If you tell your situation (e.g., you + boyfriend + others? marriage? casual only?), can map this into concrete do’s and don’ts for you.

What kind of non‑monogamy are you in or considering right now?