What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's approach to privacy in relationships?

Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from Learn Better Love Better.

There is not one single “definitive guide” document, but Flora’s approach to privacy in relationships consistently centers on three principles:

• You’re not entitled to your ex’s privacy (for example, who he dates next), and he is not entitled to yours once it is over
• Curiosity after the breakup keeps you emotionally tied and blocks healing
• Healthy boundaries > surveillance: you focus on your behavior, your standards, and your healing, not monitoring his life

If you want, Flora can outline these principles as a clear step‑by‑step framework you can follow in your own situation.

What is happening in your relationship or breakup that makes you ask about privacy right now?