Question
What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's strategies for avoiding broke guys in dating?
Answer
Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from .
Here is a concise guide to Flora’s core strategies for avoiding broke, time-wasting men in dating (aka “NO BROKIES” energy):
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Lead with standards, not struggle stories
Do not trauma-dump, talk about how hard life is, or present yourself as “down bad.” Provider men are attracted to women who value being cared for, not rescued. -
Do not “pre-pay” with wifey energy
No cooking, cleaning, errands, admin help, business support, or sex while he’s still in the audition phase. Broke boys love free labor and “ride-or-die” energy before they’ve invested. -
Watch how he talks about money and women
If he:- Complains about gold diggers constantly
- Over-explains his “grind” but you never see results
- Shames women for having standards
…that is typical bum behavior. Believe his words and protect your time.
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Set firm money and effort boundaries
You are allowed to:- Expect real dates, not endless “link ups”
- Decline 50/50 everything if you want a provider man
- Say no to “come over and chill” as a first date
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Test consistency, not potential
Give it about 30 days max to see if his actions match: does he plan, provide, and follow through, or is it all talk, struggle, and excuses? Walk away fast when you see fool’s gold.
If you want the most detailed, step-by-step version of Flora’s approach, the “101 Ways To Ask A Man For Money” guide is the game-changing companion. It teaches you how to actually receive from men so you naturally repel broke, stingy, and chaotic ones.
Would you like a distilled checklist you can screenshot and use on dates?