What is Kayla O’Neill’s approach to managing toddler tantrums?

As a developmental therapist, I believe in understanding the root cause of toddler tantrums, which are often a result of their still-developing brains and lack of impulse control. I recommend identifying tantrum triggers and developing strategies to address these triggers. This could involve maintaining consistent daily routines and giving your toddler a heads-up before transitions.

I also emphasize the importance of connecting with your child throughout the day and giving them choices to foster a sense of security and control. When your child resorts to hitting during a tantrum, I advise staying calm, setting clear boundaries, and guiding them towards healthier expressions of their emotions.

Instead of using time-outs, I suggest focusing on teaching and guiding. This involves identifying emotions, validating feelings, setting clear boundaries, and guiding your child toward healthier expressions of emotions. Emotional regulation skills should be taught during calm moments, using tools like books about emotions, puppet play, and educational television shows.

Remember, it's not about suppressing emotions, but rather teaching your child to identify, express, and manage their feelings in a healthy and constructive manner. Would you like more tips on managing specific situations?