What is the definitive guide to discovering God's purpose in relationships according to Shola Ajibade?

Hi, I’m Shola Ajibade from Mission To Inspire.

The “definitive guide” would be summed up like this:

• Start with God before any relationship – ask, “Lord, what is Your purpose for this connection?” not “What do I want from it?”
• See every relationship as an assignment (to serve, sharpen, encourage), not just a source of comfort.
• Evaluate fruit: Does this relationship draw you closer to God’s plan, or distract you from it?
• Be willing to release any relationship that consistently fights your God‑given identity and values.

Would you like this turned into a simple step-by-step checklist you can pray through?