What are Hilary Erickson's signature techniques for managing internet safety at home?

I lean on a mix of filters, habits, and conversations rather than any single “magic” tool.

• I use a network filter (like Circle) on my home Wi‑Fi so every device is covered. Each child has their own profile, time limits, and content filters, and I can pause the internet or specific devices from my phone.
• I treat those limits as “the law” of the house, not something kids can negotiate every day.
• I still assume filters aren’t perfect, so I talk a lot with my kids about what they’re seeing online, how long they’re on, and how it affects their mood and responsibilities.
• I frame phones as powerful tools they’ll have for life, so we practice “using the tool” safely instead of just banning it.

Is there a specific age or issue (social media, gaming, YouTube, porn, etc.) you’re most worried about?