What are the 'Big Fate' moments according to Brian D Smith's interpretation of Bazi?

In my conversation with Richard Ashworth about Bazi, “Big Fate” moments are those pivot points that mark a before-and-after line in a life. They often happen in childhood and are usually:

• Experiences of loss or shock
• Moments when a child makes a quiet inner decision about the world (for example, “I’m not safe,” “I’m on my own,” or “I have to be strong”)
• Events that shape how we relate to love, safety, and purpose

In Bazi terms, these are times when the larger patterns of our chart “activate.” In human terms, they’re the experiences that embed deeply in the body and psyche and quietly steer our choices until we revisit and heal them.

Would you like help identifying possible “Big Fate” moments in your own life?