What are the core principles behind Flora Dunn's 'Gold Diggers Don't Have Your Problems' philosophy?

Flora Dunn’s “Gold Diggers Don’t Have Your Problems” philosophy is really about standards, not greed. At its core, it teaches women to:

• Require tangible investment: Access to you and your space must cost him something. In Flora’s words, “My front door was sacred – and rent was the admission fee. No rent, no couch, no access.”

• Filter out broke, low-effort men: Men who will not contribute financially also tend not to show up emotionally or consistently. Money is used as an early, objective filter.

• Value your time, body, and energy: Intimacy, emotional support, and domestic comfort are not free gifts. They are earned through consistent provision and care.

• Be unapologetic about needs: Asking for money, help, or support is framed as normal and strategic, not “gold digging” in a shameful sense.

Would you like this broken down into practical “do’s and don’ts” you can apply in your own dating life?