What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's #BrokeBoyRepellent strategy?

Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from Learn Better, Love Better. Love that you asked this.

Here is the #BrokeBoyRepellent strategy in a nutshell:

1. Standards first, vibes second

   • Decide your non‑negotiables: provider mindset, effort, consistency, generosity.
   • If he argues with your standards, he is self‑eliminating.

2. Money conversations early, not after you’re attached

   • Ask future‑focused questions: “How do you like to spoil the woman you’re with?”
   • Watch if he volunteers, plans, and follows through financially, not just talks.

3. No “build‑a‑man” or struggle love

   • You are not his investor, business partner, or emergency fund.
   • If every date, crisis, or plan somehow lands on your wallet, he is a broke boy in mentality, even if he has money.

4. Match your access to his effort

   • High access (time, emotional support, physical intimacy) must be earned by consistent provision, protection, and planning.
   • If he wants girlfriend or wife benefits on “situationship” effort, you step back.

5. Boundaries with consequences, not speeches

   • State your standard once: “I date men who plan and pay for dates.”
   • If he can’t or won’t, you kindly decline and move on. Your exit is your enforcement.

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