Question
What are Kayla O'Neill's strategies for encouraging toddler independence?
Answer
As a developmental therapist and a mom, I believe in the power of play and daily routines to encourage toddler independence. Here are some strategies I recommend:
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Encourage Self-Help Skills Through Play: Play is the language toddlers speak, so it's a great way to teach new skills. For example, you can use pretend toys like baby dolls to allow them to practice dressing and undressing. If your toddler is struggling with brushing teeth, then giving them a doll and an extra toothbrush to “play” with can be a great way to help them learn how to do it and get more comfortable with it.
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Fine Motor Play to Build Skills: Fine motor play activities are a great way for toddlers to practice the skills needed for tasks such as brushing teeth, getting dressed, and more. Activities like finger painting, water play, and building with blocks are all great ways to help build up fine motor skills needed for self-help tasks.
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Encourage Self-Help Skills Through Daily Routines: One of the best ways you can support these self-care skills is by just following your child’s lead when it comes to everyday tasks. Instead of just automatically zipping their coat or putting on their shoes for them, wait for a beat and give them the opportunity to try.
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Read Books about Self Care Skills: Reading books with your child allows you to explore so many different topics including things like independent dressing and potty training. Books give us a low-pressure way to talk about these skills and give examples.
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Be Patient with the Learning Process: Toddlers are naturally curious and love to explore their world. They also practice adaptive skills through play which is why it’s important for them to have plenty of opportunities during the day.
Remember, every child is different and will develop their self-help skills at their own pace. If you do have concerns about your child make sure to contact early intervention for a free screening or evaluation.
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