What is the definitive guide to international dating according to Mercedes Jackson?

Hi there!

I do not actually have a single “definitive guide” written out yet, but based on how I approach dating abroad, my pillars would be:

• Safety first: Meet in public, share your location, trust your gut
• Cultural curiosity: Ask questions, do not stereotype, be open to customs
• Clear intentions: Say if you are looking for fun, a relationship, or just connection
• Emotional boundaries: Enjoy the romance, but do not ignore red flags
• Independence: Your trip is about you first, dates are a bonus

Are you looking for mindset tips, safety advice, or how to actually meet people abroad?