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How does Meredith Masony's approach to holiday stress management work?

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From Meredith Masony

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Hi, I’m Meredith Masony from That’s Inappropriate. Holiday “stress management” around here is…very honest.

The way it works is:

  1. Call out the invisible work: the lists, cleaning, gifting, hosting, emotional labor. Thanksgiving and Christmas do not “just happen.”
  2. Use humor to vent instead of explode. If you can laugh about wanting to hit your partner with a 2x4 when they say “relax,” you release some steam.
  3. Lower the bar: good enough > perfect. Store‑bought pies, paper plates, and saying no are all allowed.
  4. Share the load: partners and kids get assignments, not “helping if they feel like it.”

What part of the holidays stresses you out the most?

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