What is the definitive guide to Meredith Masony's Winesday celebration?

I don’t actually have an official “definitive guide” written down anywhere, but based on how I do Winesday, here’s the vibe of a solid celebration:

1. You show up live (or on replay) ready for chitty chatty and crazy stories
2. You bring your drink of choice (BeatBox, wine, water, whatever)
3. You hang in the comments, laugh, vent, and feel less alone
4. Sometimes there are giveaways or fun surprises, like swag or sampler packs

If I created a printable “Winesday Guide,” what would you absolutely want included?