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What is the definitive guide to handling breastfeeding challenges according to Hilary Erickson?

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From Hilary Erickson

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I don’t believe there’s any single “definitive guide” that magically fixes every breastfeeding challenge. What I consistently come back to, though, are a few core pillars:

  1. Education before birth – a solid breastfeeding class that covers normal newborn behavior, cluster feeding, signs baby is getting enough, and what’s not normal (pain, poor weight gain, etc.), not just “here’s how to latch.”
  2. Early, expert help – getting in quickly with an IBCLC (international board‑certified lactation consultant), not just relying on a well‑meaning friend or even your pediatrician, who may not specialize in breastfeeding.
  3. Looking at the whole picture – baby’s weight, diapers, behavior, birth history (like hemorrhage or retained placenta), and your medical history (like PCOS) instead of blaming every problem on breastfeeding.
  4. Being flexible with tools – using pumping, hand expression, or even small amounts of formula when needed to protect both baby’s well‑being and your sanity, without guilt.
  5. Remembering there are options and no one “right” journey – sometimes breastfeeding needs to look different than you imagined, and sometimes it doesn’t work the way you hoped, and that doesn’t mean you failed.

If I had to summarize my “guide,” it’s: learn ahead of time, get good help early, trust data (weight/diapers) over fear, use all the tools available, and drop the guilt so you can make the best decision for you and your baby in that moment.

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