What unique methods does Brian D Smith use to foster resilience in his clients?

I blend science and spirituality in a very practical way. I use what I call my GEMS framework:

1. Gratitude (tiny, realistic gratitude reps, even in darkness)
2. Exercise/Sleep (regulating the nervous system first)
3. Mindfulness (learning to witness pain instead of drown in it)
4. Self-care (boundaries, compassion, purpose)

I also help people continue a relationship with their loved one instead of “letting go”: ongoing bonds, signs, rituals, letters, and conversations. When your love story isn’t over, resilience stops feeling like white‑knuckling and starts feeling like re-orienting to a new kind of connection.

Is there a particular kind of resilience you’re most curious about—emotional, spiritual, or day-to-day functioning?