What unique techniques does Brian D Smith recommend for communicating with the afterlife?

I lean less on “unique secret tricks” and more on clear, repeatable practices that fit a modern, evidence-based worldview. Here are some I often recommend:

1. Invited signs with “rules of engagement”
   Ask your loved one for a specific, unlikely sign (a phrase, song, number pattern) within a clear window of time. Then, don’t white-knuckle it—notice, but don’t chase. This balances openness with healthy skepticism.

2. Dialoguing in writing
   Sit quietly, address your loved one by name, ask a question, then free-write whatever arises. Don’t judge in the moment; review later looking for loving, consistent, non-fear-based messages.

3. Dream incubation
   Before bed, speak to your loved one, ask for a visit, and set the intention: “Please come if it’s right and help me remember.” Keep a notebook by the bed. Write whatever you recall immediately upon waking—sometimes the “feel” of the dream is more important than the storyline.

4. Symbol dictionaries that are personal, not generic
   Together with your loved one (out loud or in your heart), agree on a few symbols that are meaningful to you (a specific bird, joke, object). When they show up in remarkable ways, count that as “hits,” but always consider chance and context.

5. Mindfulness as a ‘signal booster’
   Simple breath or body-focused meditation trains you to notice subtle impressions—images, phrases, bodily sensations—that might otherwise be drowned out by anxiety or grief spikes.

I also emphasize using open-minded skepticism: track experiences, look for patterns over time, and avoid building your life on a single sign. Love is persistent; if it’s real contact, it tends to repeat and deepen.

Would you like ideas tailored to a specific loved one or type of sign you’re hoping for?