What signature techniques does Flora Dunn recommend to avoid low-effort dates?

Flora Dunn teaches women to listen for code words that signal low effort, then respond with clear standards instead of going along.

From her “What Is A Good Date?” content, red-flag phrases include:

1. “Meet and greet,” “meet up”
2. “Coffee,” “ice cream,” “something low key”
3. “It’s just the first date,” “drinks,” “something casual”
4. “We don’t know each other yet,” “low pressure,” “just come over”

Her signature move: treat those as information, not invitations. You politely decline or counter with a real, intentional plan that reflects how you expect to be courted.

Would you like example scripts for how to respond when a man suggests one of these?