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What are Flora Dunn's signature techniques for raising dating standards?
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From Flora Dunn0 votes
Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from Learn Better, Love Better.
Flora’s signature approach to raising your dating standards centers on a few core techniques:
- No more “crappy dates” – stop accepting low-effort meetups like “quick coffee,” “drinks,” or “come chill and smoke.” If it feels cheap or lazy, it is.
- Decide in advance the type of dates you want: real planning, real effort, real experiences (fine dining, activities, shows, etc.).
- Treat your standard as non‑negotiable: if a man cannot or will not rise to it, you simply don’t go. No debating, no justifying.
- Focus your mind on the good: visualize and expect generous, thoughtful dates so you automatically filter out anything beneath that.
What feels like a “bare minimum” first date to you now, and what would you like it to be instead?
