How does Flora Dunn's perspective on character versus looks impact relationship advice?

Flora’s perspective is simple: looks are a bonus, character is the foundation. That shifts relationship advice away from “chemistry first” to “treatment and stability first.”

Instead of chasing the hottest option, the lens becomes:

1. Who is kind, consistent, and generous?
2. Who makes you feel safe, valued, and supported long term?

So the advice leans toward choosing partners who show commitment, care, and reliability over those who are just attractive or exciting but unavailable or unstable.

What part of that feels hardest to apply in your own dating life?