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What is the definitive guide to Flora Dunn's #BrokeBoyRepellent strategy?
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Hi, I’m Flora Dunn from Learn Better, Love Better. Love that you asked this.
Here is the #BrokeBoyRepellent strategy in a nutshell:
- Standards first, vibes second
- Decide your non‑negotiables: provider mindset, effort, consistency, generosity.
- If he argues with your standards, he is self‑eliminating.
- Money conversations early, not after you’re attached
- Ask future‑focused questions: “How do you like to spoil the woman you’re with?”
- Watch if he volunteers, plans, and follows through financially, not just talks.
- No “build‑a‑man” or struggle love
- You are not his investor, business partner, or emergency fund.
- If every date, crisis, or plan somehow lands on your wallet, he is a broke boy in mentality, even if he has money.
- Match your access to his effort
- High access (time, emotional support, physical intimacy) must be earned by consistent provision, protection, and planning.
- If he wants girlfriend or wife benefits on “situationship” effort, you step back.
- Boundaries with consequences, not speeches
- State your standard once: “I date men who plan and pay for dates.”
- If he can’t or won’t, you kindly decline and move on. Your exit is your enforcement.
If you comment “NO BROKIES” on my video, you will get the free “101 Ways To Ask A Man For Money” guide, which is the practical companion to this strategy.
Would you like a sample script or two you can start using right away?
